It’s very simple. Keep your hand on your sword at all times. Never let go of your sword not even in front of a friend.
What I mean by that is always be willing to walk away no matter how far you’ve gone with that person. Always be willing to walk away because people are slippery.
You don't know if you're creating jealousy or not. Sometimes we become so self-consumed with our own problems and goals that we don't know the kind of jealousy that people are sending at us. The way to deal with that is to always be willing to walk away.
It's not that you're telling them, but internally, you're willing to walk away even if it hurts. That will project strength and people will feel it. They’re gonna sense that you are not jaded.
They're going to sense a strength behind your actions. It's like fighting someone who doesn't care to die. They're dangerous. It's the same thing with people.
If you want to get people's respect, be willing to walk away a hundred percent. When you give people a second chance without having to pay a price, Without you having to walk away, they're going to take you for granted.
There's no other way around it. Some people will only have you as their BITCH. That is the only word that describes it. For most people you have to recognize it because that's the only kind of relationship you can have with them.
It's either you bow down to me or you leave. Some people though want to have a relationship on an equal standing.
When you stand up for yourself, they're not going to walk away. They will value you. They're going to listen to you and respect you more.
A real friend who f***** up and can sense that you're willing to walk away, will run after you. A fake-ass friend will not run after you or they have too much pride. Sometimes that happens. With that you have to let time pass by.
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