My client met this guy a few months ago. They went out and had a good night. They kissed, but didn't do anything else.
When she looked at his phone, she noticed that he was talking to another girl. She was looking for red flags to see if maybe he's married.
Later, she noticed that he posted some songs on his Instagram that made it look like he was in love with somebody.
She went crazy. She messaged him about why he didn’t tell her that he was already seeing somebody. He said that he wasn't seeing anybody.
He then went on to say that they should just be friends and not kiss anymore. He said that he was having feelings for her, but then they should just be friends.
She feels like she f***** it up.
They didn't talk for over a week and then he started texting her regularly. He is being cute, but doesn't ask her out. It looks like he has friend zoned her.
She should not accept being in the friend zone. I recommended that she end it.
If she says no to the friendship, it might even make him reconsider her. It might not get him to like her, but it could show him that she is able to like people, but still maintain the self-control to walk away from them.
That's the best thing for her to do - end the friendship. She needs to stop responding to his text messages. Let him say 'Hey, why aren't you responding?’ She can say that she's not looking for friends and that’s that.
She needs to be straightforward with him and be willing to lose him. They don't seem compatible and she will eventually lose him anyway.
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