I was talking to a male client last night, he's one of my monthly coaching clients and he was telling me that sometimes he has a problem where women just lose interest with him all of a sudden. He showed me a photo of himself and he's a good-looking guy but his problem is never hearing back again from women he dates or flirts with. He asked me what's he doing wrong and how can he fix this?
What I did was ask the women in my other channel why is it that when a woman likes a guy, as soon as he opens his mouth, she gets turned off. I got a lot of responses, more than I wanted, and I really got interested.
One response I got why women get turned off, is "when a man is childlike in social situations and makes an embarrassing statement thinking it's funny". When a woman likes you, she has an image of you of a mysterious person. You have to change your mentality, it's not being fun and interesting that gets the woman, it's the strength of the character.
They're losing interest because you're coming across as too childlike so the safe route to making sure you preserve the masculinity is to relax and have the mentality of being willing to walk away.
Also, laugh less. This has a powerful effect.
Another thing is triggering insecurities by not looking at her that much and talking less. The reason why they lose interest is that you think they like you so you also think they'll like anything that comes out of your mouth. Say less than necessary.
If you're acting like a goofball and she still liked you, that means she really likes you but she could've liked you even more if you weren't. There's always room for improvement.
I made this mistake a lot when I was younger and a big part was because I thought that you have to be interesting to get a girl to like you, but I was wrong and that's okay. I believe now that a woman has to respect you and women don't respect goofballs.
Once you have respect, everything comes from that and a woman can't respect you if you're super feminine. It might be nice and good but generally, she can't respect you. She won't tell you but she'll show you by starting to take control of the relationship.
We discuss this in greater detail in my course.... click here.