I talked to a client about how to make sure that a guy isn't lying to you. We also discussed what to do when a guy lies.
This client feels scared of the dating world. When she meets a guy, she is thinking about whether or not they would ever get along.
There's this guy who she went out with a couple of times who didn't lay a hand on her. They talked about their past relationships.
When she talked with one of his coworkers, he told her that the guy got married to one of the executives’ daughters and had a child with her. He's currently divorced.
The guy lied about his past relationship and also about his work history. She doesn't want to confront him about it since he already lied.
She feels like men are not completely sincere with her. She has gone out with about six guys from dating apps in the past half year.
That's not enough. She needs to really go through, not necessarily sleep with, quite a few guys. This is how she could really know what's out there.
Almost every guy she meets is going to lie to her one way or another. It's f***** up to the extent that it varies how much they lie. She just needs to be very patient.
Most guys are not valuable. Most guys aren't worth your time so you just have to be really patient. Don't let your impatience get the best of you.
She's still young and she probably just had bad luck. She will eventually meet a good guy. It sounds cliché but it's true.
She says that she's seeing a lot of guys at the same time because she doesn't want to put all her hopes up on one person. However, she's not honest about this with the guys she goes out with.
She you should tell them about it. This will make them think about putting in the work to impress her.
We discuss this in greater detail in my course.... click here.