When you like someone, you tend to let a lot of shit slide. You let guys ask you out on an hour's notice. You cannot let guys treat you like a drug dealer.
A drug dealer is someone who says that he’s two blocks away and shows up two hours later. You let it go because he has something you want. He has the goods.
A lot of women, when they like a guy, always give him the benefit of the doubt. He says that he's going to be late, but you are thinking he'll be there soon. He is 40 minutes late, but you just stay there like a little bitch.
You let him show up and act like nothing happened. You don't communicate that you're mad. You don't give him any punishment. This causes a guy to take advantage of you and not respect your time.
I have some tips on how to make a man respect your time.
First of all, withdraw the offer. When you ask a man if he is available to hang out and he says ‘maybe.’ Reply to him with ‘maybe?’.
If he still says that he's busy after that, then you should withdraw the offer. You need to do that to make him appreciate your time.
After that, you will make yourself available only after two weeks. You want to make him wait and realize that your time is valuable. The only way for a guy to understand that is not by telling him but by showing him.
Let’s say that he says he's going to be an hour late for a date. It's one of those little things that people do to test you. If a guy tells you he's going to be late, use it as an excuse to withdraw the offer.
You say 'You know what, it's fine, You might be too busy. Let's just do it some other time.’ It will make the guy value your time more and he will never be late again.
Two things are going to happen. He might say 'You know what I'm going to make it on time' or he's going to accept and think to himself that he's never going to be late again.
If he says he's going to show up in 30 minutes and he arrives after an hour, tell him that he shouldn't show up next time. Let him know that you don't like waiting for him.
Once he arrives, you can also text that you already left since you thought he wasn't coming.
Don’t accept any bulls***. With any sign of hesitation, back off instantly.
We discuss this in greater detail in my course.... click here.