A lot of women who’ve had bad experiences with men feel like they've been used in their lives. I'm going to show you that you guys have more power than you think.
This video is one of the things that I teach in my course The Psychological Game of Attraction. In that course, I talk about how to get a guy attracted to you In a very systematic and linear way.
Guys take advantage of you because of certain laws in human nature. There are three laws of human nature that explain why this happens.
One, people will attack you if they think you're weak. They know you're weak because of a second law: people sense your weakness through sub-communication and the things you've done in the past. People are always trying to interpret your actions to find a place to put you in their minds by seeing if you're a strong person or a weak person.
We're always sending out signals - either for weakness or strength. Your sub-communication is something you can’t control. It's a reflection of how entitled you feel.
You’ll be able to control it through high levels of awareness and making it a goal to fix it. The third law is that people are after the easiest win. If you give them an easy win, they can't help but attack you and take advantage of you.
In attempting to take advantage of you, if people feel like you will harm them, they will back off from you. If they feel that you are weak, but you have some fight in you, they will deter from you.
Maybe you started from a bad place in life. Maybe you had a bad childhood or you had a bad experience and you interpreted it in a negative way. As a result, you sub-communicate your pain onto others.
Rather than getting sympathy, you get bullied. If you were not able to defend yourself, you didn't fight back. That accelerates the process.
You become a victim to life. Life will keep attacking you while you're down. It has a momentum.
How do you avoid being taken advantage of? The first step is to stop being nice. You're nice because you believe that being nice will get you what you want. That's not the case.
You believe in being nice because you want to feel in control. Stop trying to be nice. Confront people to compensate for it. This will let you focus on the uncomfortable feeling of making people uncomfortable.
When you feel like confronting someone, that's when you should - especially if you've always been taken advantage of.
It is the willingness to confront that evades people. It is the willingness to confront that sends signals of strength.
We discuss this in greater detail in my course.... click here.