As a man who talks to women, I know that some of these women are just acting busy. You have to be saving the world if you're going to be really busy.
When you're asking a guy what he's up to, and he tells you he's busy, how do you know whether he's really busy or he doesn't want to go out with you?
It's simple. Ask him, ‘Are you always busy?’
Let's say that you're a girl and I ask you if you're always busy. If you want to see me, but you really are busy, you’re going to say, ‘No, I'm not always busy’ or ‘Yes, I'm always busy but I'm free on..’
By asking a guy if he is always busy, you can really know if he wants to see you again. The answer that he gives you will let you know if he really likes you or not.
It will be a little bit more complicated if you guys are in a relationship.
Let's say he recently told you that he was busy. If he asks you what you're up to, you tell him, ‘Not much, we couldn't hang out last night so I got dinner with a friend. My friend treated me to dinner.’
Don't tell him if it's a guy or a girl. Just say ’my friend.’ If he asks who it was, say it was just a friend of yours from school or work. If he insists to know who it was, say it was a girl.
The point is that when a guy is busy, you can say, ’If you’re too busy, we don't have to hang out.’ If you tell him this, he will have two options. He can say, ‘Yes, we don't have to hang out’ or ‘No, let's hang out later on when I'm not busy.’
It's very simple. The first one is, ‘Are you always busy?’ if you're not in a relationship. The second one is ‘We don't have to hang out.’
That's going to tell you exactly what you need to know about his intentions and how he thinks about you.
We discuss this in greater detail in my course.... click here.