One of the most difficult parts of learning how to improve your dating life with men isn’t in learning how to make them love you, but understanding the hard truth that some men JUST WON’T LOVE YOU.
There are a few factors why and I’ll explain them to you. Even though I give you my reasons why, it still remains a mystery. There’s a certain factor that will overpower the first few traits so keep that in mind.
No matter how compatible you guys might be, if he had different values at the time to yours then the relationship won’t work out. You might value commitment and relaxation and he values having fun and no commitment. No matter what you do, you won’t change this. IF he values seeing other women and having a lot of sex with different partners, even though he wants to commit, he won’t be able to stop his urges.
You might value being with one person, and even though he loves you, he can’t commit. He might be a young guy who wants to get girls for once. He might be an older man who finally got rich and now he’s getting women’s attention for a change. Only life can get them to change their values. Maybe somebody dies (don’t get any ideas), or maybe he feels like it’s time to change but that realization isn’t up to you.
2. You remind him of himself
You might think you want a version of yourself, but the truth is that we want the opposite. He might find you fascinating at first, but someone who’s too much like you just doesn’t work out. You might secretly hate yourself and if you see the traits that you secretly hate in yourself, you might feel repulsion towards the person and see them in a negative light.
3. You were a rebound and he’s not over his ex
Sorry, if he’s not over his ex and you want a relationship, he’ll never truly commit to you. The problem is that he might love you, but the last person caused him more pain and as a result, he’ll remember her more and desire her more. He will take you for granted because you’re always there, and never on his mind. The only one on his mind is his ex.
4. The chemistry just isn’t there
Sometimes, no matter how much you want it to work, your bodies aren’t for each other. Your brains don’t interact well. Why is that? I don’t know, but that’s what usually happens when you love someone. It just happens. You can do things to destroy it, but making it happen is something that’s organic. You can use tactics to bring it out, but you can’t create it out of the blue. There has to be a seed.
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