This is a question that I ask myself. Why do I get bored with women who are exceptionally beautiful? Why do I get bored with women who I really liked?
This is very similar to asking, ‘Why do you love video games, but get bored when it gets too easy?’
You don't really want to win all the games. You only think you do. Let's try to understand the reward system in our brains to see how we operate.
When I start winning video games, I increase the difficulty level so I can find challenges. While playing the game, I'm thinking that I want to win it.
Somehow, winning too much makes it boring. Losing makes the winning more enjoyable.
We have a linear way of thinking. We believe that things make sense. You have to realize that making sense is only for people who are logical. It's only for people who think without emotions.
We’re dealing with a human being who is emotional. If you look at your emotions, you cannot comprehend them. Most people cannot verbalize their emotions.
As a result, you don't understand why you act the way you do. You have to realize that your emotions don't make any sense.
When you act impulsively, when you love someone, you don’t make any sense. You confuse yourself because of it.
When it comes to guys getting bored, you believe that showing how much you value him makes him chase. Quite the contrary, it tends to push him away.
Men want a challenge.
It's not that men want a bitch. They want to feel like they worked for you and they won you over.
If you notice that you're always validating your guy and you're always there for him, he's going to get bored. He may not tell you, but you're going to notice in his subtle behavior.
He’ll be a little bit more busy. He’ll be a little bit less enthusiastic.
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