The way that you make a guy fantasizes about you is by giving him a taste of what’s possible because you don’t fantasize about things that are tangible, that are in front of you, that you have. You fantasize about the things you don’t have, that you do want; the more you want something, the more you’re going to fantasize about it.
The fantasy comes as a result of how much lack you have in your life. For example, the sadder you are, the more depressed you are, the more you’re going to fantasize about negative things. And also, the more hopeful you feel, the more you’re going to fantasize about things. It depends a lot on your state of mind.
In order for you to become that fantasy, you don’t necessarily need to have the looks, except, maybe, in the sense of being a person’s type. Some guys have their types, but there’s always a guy for every girl. Once you have that, you need to be able to lure him in, then right at the last second, push him away. You give him a sense that this might happen, but you create a barrier. You become that temptation, simply because there’s a barrier. You know you simply cannot have the person and because you know the person wants you, it causes you to be tempted.
A person who has a boyfriend is always a taboo, but taboo can be other things as well, and the more taboo, the more you want it, the more you fantasize about it because you know you can’t have it. If this doesn’t happen naturally, you have to orchestrate it somehow; that’s why a lot of people involved in long term relationship do skype sex, because they want to be close to each other and sometimes it’s more intense when they’re far away simply because you can’t have them and you know they want you too. It only works when you know that you want them.
It’s one thing knowing that a girl doesn’t want the guy and quite another when she does because it gets him interesting. But because there’s a barrier, you’re thinking: “Just my luck! I finally find a guy that likes me, he doesn’t like me back!”. That’s what you want to give him. So, in doing that, you’re giving him a fantasy, you make him want you more, but you have to create that barrier.
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