You should never let a guy bait you into chasing him. People think they’re slick. A big part of the way people make you chase is you think they're dumb. For example, if you text someone and they don't reply to that text, you think they forgot. Bitch please. Motherfuckers don't forget text messages. Motherfuckers know you texted them. They're trying to bait your ass into texting them twice. You should make a rule to never double text a guy.
People bait you into chasing by trying to get you emotional. For example, your ex comes back and he shows a lot of interest. He is texting you, he's liking your statuses, he is telling you he's in the area but he doesn't ask you out. He wants your ass to ask him out.
You should make this a policy for the rest of your life. Never chase a guy. Never double text a guy. Never ask a guy out if he never asks you out first. If a guy ever dumps you, never go back to him unless he comes back and pays the f****** price. If he doesn't pay the price, then he can go to the curb.
People always bait you to chase. When they do it, they act like nothing happened. You text them and they say ‘oh, I'm sorry I forgot to text you back.’ Bitch please. He knows goddamn well if he’s going to text you back. He knows exactly what he did. He's trying to get you to double text.
I was telling my clients this. You have to be an immovable object. You've got to have standards that you will not break no matter what. If he doesn't ask you out, your a** isn't going to go out with him. If you have a date with him during that day and he doesn't confirm, say ‘hey, look man, I'm not going out because you didn't confirm.'
You want to know what's the key to all of this? You've got to be willing to lose these motherfuckers. The only way for you to lose these motherfuckers is for you to be in love with your life. You've got to find your purpose in life. You've got to have something to wake up to that's not that guy. Have something that fills your heart with fire. You've got to have something that makes you say ‘I just cannot wait to do that.’
I read about finding your purpose in life from the book Mastery.
Make that your focus. Try to find that. If you don't, you won't have a strong base of passion that comes from within. You'll be like a ship without a rudder. You're just going to be led by the wind.
We discuss this in greater detail in my course.... click here.