How do you turn a guy just from being friends with benefits into a relationship?
The first thing you got to realize is to not use your body to make him turn into a relationship. Use your vulnerability, his ego, his imagination, and preselection to get him to want you.
Realize that some guys are the way they are and some guys can't be changed. The only thing that can change guys is life experience and time.
Pick the right guy. Don't pick the player or the one who struggles getting emotionally attached to a woman. That's trouble.
Introduce other guys and talk about other guys. Introducing other guys will make him view you more attractive and will make him want to possess you. I don't really recommend this but it really works.
Another thing is to talk good about other guys. Talking good about other guys, especially guys who have opposing traits that your guy doesn't have. This will make him jealous and even work for your validation. This gets them chasing big time!
Also, lead him along and then act cold - set the pattern and act cold - you must spend time together and then let go so that he feels what’s inside. When there's no stimulus, he’ll look inside but don’t be predictable. Guys will respect you more if you show him that there's a cold side to you. You won't become the girl guys take advantage of.
See what he’s missing inside and become it. See what the guy is missing and become it. If he's a messy person, be organized. If he's anger prone, be emotionally stable. Not only will he like you, but he'll admire you.
Another thing to do is talk on skype before going to bed. Make yourself the last person he thinks of.
Reveal yourself slowly and make sure to contradict yourself.
Engage in their deep-rooted narcissism. Act as though you enjoy the things he enjoys. Inflate his ego and praise him for the things he believes he's good at. Make him feel proud of who he is. And then take it away by being cold.
Set up a challenge by saying most guys aren't enough for you but talk about a certain guy who is and is the opposite of how he looks.
The last one is to hang out more…. and then stop but don’t be predictable.
These are 10 tactics you can do, but pick at least 2 or 3 of these tactics and focus on doing it.
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