Guys feel neediness to how much investment they put in but they also feel neediness through the vibe she gives off. So what are the ways to come across cool and attractive and take away your needy vibe?
A lot of the times, you can tell if someone's needy. Neediness gives the other person leverage and takes away power from you. So what do you regain that power? Most people are needy because they're trying to avoid something in their heads that they need. They have an outcome in mind and they need it to fulfill a fantasy they have.
Most of the time, we don't suppress the good things about us but we always suppress the bad things. Now, what we're going to do is the total opposite. You do the opposite because if you suppress the bad things, it's going to be felt by the guy through your sub-communication.
Now, suppressing something good about you is going to make you confident in a very subtle way. And this is how you're able to come across as mysterious, by hiding the good things about you. By doing the opposite, you're going to confuse him.
Exposing your weaknesses also removes your neediness. We usually try to suppress our weaknesses as opposed to our strengths but that'll say more negatively about you than it says positively. Remember, what really affects people is not what you say, it's what you don't say. And what you don't say is what makes people wonder.
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