In order to stop getting played by men, you have to put yourself in a position where getting played is out of the question! Getting played is all about having one expectation being told to you and getting the other. It's a form of bait and switch.
So how do you overcome the feeling of getting played by those fuckboys? Change your expectations and stop taking the game too seriously. When you go into every interaction with an expectation, with an outcome in mind, it becomes extremely difficult to take the interaction lightly. If you go in it to get him to commit anything that doesn't go with that expectation, it will feel like you got played.
Now let's say that the guy said he wanted something, but really wanted sex, is that getting played? Maybe, but then again, why are you feeling so disappointed? Everything doesn't go as planned.
The problem is that women take relationships too seriously. They see it as life and death. If you took it as a game, if a guy dumps you, you're able to move on to the next. Now that's impossible if you have low self-esteem and this is where I want to segway to.
When you have low self-esteem, you're going to interpret everything in the wrong way. You're going to see things that aren't there and are going to overreact to the things that happen to you.
By focusing on building your self-esteem you're in hindsight automatically fixing the problem of getting played by other men. The feeling of playing is all about your perception, and your perception is all about how you see yourself. Improve your self-image and suddenly you won't be getting as played by men as often.
We discuss this in greater detail in my course.... click here.