Most relationships with men don't work out not because of your looks but your way of being.
When a woman becomes too attached to a guy to the point that they need him for emotional support; the relationship will inevitably fail.
Whenever we place someone in the role of "the one who makes me happy", any sort of unhappiness will be blamed on the person who's there to make us happy, your partner.
These types of role play stunt growth in a lot of relationships because they are not organic. Most women say to themselves "good, this guy is good, I think he's it, he's gonna make me happy". Now he's fucked. He doesn't know that it's his role to make you happy,
My problem with this way of thinking is that it makes the woman not feel responsible for how she feels. Whenever she feels bad, it's his fault.
So what you have to start doing is begin to put yourself in the role of the person who makes you happy. Forget about the guy. He already has enough problems and insecurities of his own. Focus on making yourself happy and make him secondary.
We discuss this in greater detail in my course.... click here.