A lot of times, you're boring to a man not because you don't have conversational skills but because you're not stimulating enough. You can play the best video game in the world but if the difficulty level is at beginner, you'll soon get bored. It doesn't matter how many amazing features you have in the game. If it's too easy to win, you're gonna get bored.
You're boring because you're too easy to win over. He has won you over. You have validated the guy. He knows he has you. The problem with the natural human tendencies to give in to someone, to surrender to them, to let them know how much you love them, is they get boring as f***.
I remember this girl that I dated. She was banging hot and she visited me for 3 days. The problem is that she gave me so much validation that I got bored with her. I didn't want to be with her anymore because of that.
Being interesting is all about having higher value. I tell guys that there are two types of humor. There is funny humor and then there's humor because of your value. A woman will laugh at you for three reasons. One, she's feeling awkward. Two, you’re genuinely funny. Three, because she likes you. The third one doesn't have to be because you're funny. If she likes you, she’ll laugh to get your validation.
The way to deal with your value is to withhold your validation. Make a conscious effort to not validate men. When you validate men, you bore them. It doesn't matter how amazing your personality is. If you give him too much of your time, too much mental effort, and show him how much you like him, you're going to come across as boring.
Having an interesting personality is all about how much you expose yourself. It's about how available you are. Your unavailability, your inability to be won over easily, and your willingness to walk away are what raises your value.
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