In the world that we live in, reality is too tough for some people to take. There are some things you just have to lie about. If you believe that you have to be 100% honest to keep your guy, you're deluded. Some people are just too insecure or too superficial.
When I was honest with somebody, I would respond fast whenever I saw their text message. I noticed that, over time, they would lose interest. If someone asked me to hang out, I said 'yes, I'm free right now.' Eventually, they didn't value my time.
I thought women were really busy before. I thought there was no way that she would lie about that. I was under the assumption that everyone was being honest. Unfortunately, with people, you have to act like you're unavailable.
Sometimes, when you are not busy, you have to say you're busy. When you're happy in the relationship, you have to act like you're not happy. When you do this, it makes the other person put an effort in making you happy. Sometimes you have to lie to a guy because his ego can't take it.
If you are under the impression that you should never lie, you are believing in shit that some dating culture is telling you. The purpose of dating is to get results. People lie to you and manipulate you. If you don't lie the right way, you're going to be left behind.
Act a bit unavailable. Don't say how many guys you've been with. When somebody asks if you can hang out, say that you're busy.
Don't be so goddamn honest. People care about that kind of stuff. When you tell him that you are doing nothing because you want to be honest, you lose more than you gain.
You text him fast because you want to show that you're always there. You want to show that you're available because you're not playing any games. People are not going to see it that way. People are going to see it as though you've got nothing else to do. If you seem too available, the sad truth is that people are going to take you for granted.
Lie as a way of crafting your image. Sometimes you have to distort things a little bit. Don't base your dating strategy on being moral. You're dealing with humans.
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