This is a very effective way to get a player, or any guy, to want to commit with you. This would work under the assumption that he doesn't think you want a relationship.
The way to make this work is, he cannot have his defenses up. He has to think that what you want is something casual.
That will allow you to use this and not build up any defenses. This was done to me and it f****** worked.
Words have a certain tendency to excite the imagination.
After having sex with a guy, while you guys are in bed, you look at him and say, ‘Man, me and you could have some beautiful babies.’
It's not saying that you want to have a kid with him. You're just saying it just to say it.
Again, the only way this works is if you guys already have a vibe that this is casual. He has to believe that this is only casual and you don't have any ulterior motives.
After you say this, let it go. Two weeks later, say it again.
I don't know why, but there's something about imagining a kid with a girl that makes you kind of like them.
It really works because it gets you thinking. When I started thinking about it, I thought it was interesting.
She's just putting it out there and your defenses are down.
The key to this is that he cannot sense that you want a relationship. It's even better if he feels that you have your own boundaries.
This enables him to think about it and entertain the thought without really getting defensive.
As soon as you bring this up, change the topic.
This can only be done when you guys already have comfort. Don't bring this up after 2 dates.
Decrease your text messages so he becomes more needy. He'll be even more receptive to this if you recently acted hard-to-reach and busy.
Then, take a step back so that his imagination will create a fantasy in his mind.
It may not work on all guys, but it could work with some guys. It certainly worked on me!
We discuss this in greater detail in my course.... click here.