Apparently, cheating happens a lot. This is something that most people don't talk about. I will give you guys a guide as to how to manage this kind of relationship.
Sometimes, relationships only work under certain situations. Some peoples chemistry only works in a forbidden relationship.
Some relationships need something else on the side just to keep the whole thing good. It's f***** up, but that's what I hear a lot.
The first thing you have to realize is to not expect a deep relationship with this guy. It might seem like you guys have chemistry, but it's only because he's not going home to you and you're not going home to him. If he breaks up with his girl, he might want to get together with you.
Don't be blinded by emotions. Just because he kind of likes you doesn't mean that everything is going to get better after he dumps his girl. Things might get worse.
Sometimes, the forbidden adds an extra twist to the relationship.
Manage your expectations. Happiness is a function of expectation.
The second thing is you have to help him out. Don't be too overt. Only text him during certain times. When he is with you and he’s on the phone, shut your mouth.
If you're with him and his girl calls, be quiet. Don't expect him to give you all of his attention when he's with you.
You don't need to do a lot of hot and cold tactics for these types of relationships. Since they are forbidden, they already have their own aura.
Just don't expect a relationship from this. That's all I'm asking you.
Know that your role as a side chick doesn't equal your worth. Just because you're the girl he’s fucking on the side doesn't mean you're a shitty person.
Also, don't get used to it. Don't use relationships to find happiness. It's a trap that we all fall into.
Don't force a relationship onto them. Let it be and see if it changes naturally. Don't put any effort into it. Some relationships have their organic life.
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