Sometimes, you don't know that the guy you're with is on the rebound. Sometimes you don't know that he just came out of a relationship.
You don't know because guys are f****** liars. They lie about a lot of shit.
Why haven't you forgotten your ex?
99% of the time, it's because you're hurt. Something happened that you didn't want to happen and you did it with pain.
The reason why he hasn't forgotten about his ex is that there’s still lingering pain. Attraction is what lies over pain. When someone causes you pain, that means you like them. You care about them.
How do you heal those wounds? You can give him time to forget her. It's the option that most people go for.
The other option is to impress him so much to the point that he forgets about his ex.
The problem is, that doesn't work. It's like a friend trying to cheer you up because your ex broke up with you.
If you really want him to forget about his ex, you have to inflict more pain than his ex inflicted on him.
The reason why he hasn't forgotten his ex is because he hasn't felt any pain from you.
How this works is you guys have to have some attraction with each other.
I was dating this girl who got cheated on by her ex. We had a long distance relationship where we would hang out whenever she visits me. Eventually, she went back to her ex.
If I backed off when the attraction between us was at its peak, she would have forgotten about her ex and came to me.
We only remember those people who hurt us. Anyone who you've loved the most is usually someone who hurt you.
In order to get your boyfriend to forget about his ex, you have to inflict more pain than the ex.
Find a peak in your relationship even if it's on a downward trend. When you do, start backing off during that time.
You'll be inflicting some pain by backing off, which makes your value automatically rise in his mind.
When he gets attracted to you, you start surrounding yourself with other guys. Tell him about guys you've recently met such as your yoga instructor.
If his ex cheated on him, give him the paranoia that you could do it too. Say that you can't hang out with him because you're going out with your friend. Message him at dawn and say you had a good time. Later, send him a picture of you with your girlfriends.
Inflict pain now knowing that he's going to come back to you. You have to think long-term.
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