Let's talk about why it's so easy for guys to manipulate you. There's something about human nature where humans are always looking out for the weak. They're always sensing for weakness.
The second thing is that humans are more adept to attack those who are weak. It's because of the third law of human nature which is we can't say no to an easy victory.
We're always emanating signals to people. It's up to them to decipher what those signals mean.
A guy who is a manipulator is constantly looking for signs of a weak victim. The way that people control you is through fear. Fear is what limits your options not because they're not there, but because you're not willing to go into the unknown.
You are afraid of what would happen if you took control of your life. People in your life never gave you the opportunity to learn how to be self-sustaining.
It's essentially the fear of being alone. When you think of yourself being alone, it's not that you're going to feel the fear of somebody killing you.
Fear in this case is the discomfort. You don't want to face that experience of having to be alone and fend for yourself.
Rather than facing reality and not focusing on what you don't have, you delegate that to somebody else.
If you're needy and someone feels they have all the power, they try to put you down. This happened because they were looking for signs of fear.
You've got to have a grand vision for your life. Think many years ahead and start planning life right now.
If you don't plan it, you won't have the initiative to take control of your life. You're not planning your life because of fear. You don't have a plan for yourself based on your actions.
Stop being a b**** about this and say, 'I’ve got to take control of my life.’
You have to be fearless in order to get out of that cycle. You have to not give a f*** that you're going to be alone because you know damn well that you have the faculties to protect yourself.
If you never experienced that then you're never going to challenge yourself.
Begin seeing what's in front of you. Begin seeing the illusions from the facts.
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