Here's the second part of our series, Female Psychology, which I do talk about since I have a section of it in my course called Dark Game where we discuss female nature in more depth.
This is important for you guys to understand because the reason a lot of frustrations happening with guys with women is that they have unrealistic expectations about how women are.
The first one is about appearances. As we look around our world, everywhere we see, we see beautiful things until you go inside and you see a dysfunction. If you notice, everything that looks good on the outside, when you go deep into it, there are always flaws. Our world is a world of appearances.
There's a social standard for you to portray goodness and being saintly and the ones that are mostly pressured to portray that are women. Why is that? It's because women are known as nurturers. Unconsciously, women have this expectation that they're supposed to be angels but women's emotions betray them. The only reason women are nice because it's not socially acceptable to be outwardly aggressive and to tell people that you're selfish. It's not socially acceptable to be self-interested but that's the reality and everyone's trying to hide it.
As guys, we think that that's how women are. When we have female friends, they give us a super sweet side but you can see how they change when someone's around. There's a lot of acting going on on both sides, there's a lot of fake love on both sides.
Everything is a game. She is trying to show you her good sides but it doesn't go at hand with her emotions. Her emotions don't care about you but she'll never portray that so she'll be nice. You'll never --unless she's crazy-- hear them tell you they don't like you but they'll tell you through their actions.
What you got to do is lower your expectations because they don't care about you. I'm not saying this for you to resent women because people in general, don't care about you.
Women are prone and feel the pressure of society a little bit more than men because eyes are on them. What I want you guys to do is to change your expectations of women. A lot of guys don't understand why women do the things that they do or why is she with you, you got to realize that a lot of it has nothing to do with you. It looked like you have something to do with it when in reality, maybe you just got lucky. Women have their fantasies, you don't know this because you don't see it in their perspective.
You are misunderstanding the affection she's showing you for real love. Women see men almost as disposable things. When women don't like you and forget you, it's over. Women have so many options that they have to decide and forget quickly so you have to be the cause of her difficulty forgetting you.
Be difficult for women. Stop seeing them as angels and as something that you own. You can lose women by being difficult but just relax. Until she proves herself, not through her actions but her consistency, she doesn't care about you. It's not me being cynical or mean or angry at women but it's just the reality.
We discuss this in greater detail in my course.... click here.