I'll be telling you how to know if a guy likes you only as a person or he likes to be in a relationship with you.
Mind you, this is not going to work if you're coming out of a negative relationship because your emotions are still strong.
That will cause you to lose patience because you're not going to want to wait. You will lose sight of reality because you're not grounded in the present moment. You’re focusing more on your imagination.
It causes you to assume things based on your insecurities. Suddenly, he doesn't just have a female friend. That friend is a girl that he is possibly f*cking. Your mind creates a scenario that didn't exist before.
You won't be able to execute this if you feel needy and insecure. You're going to want to pull the trigger fast.
If you're feeling needy and you feel like you need this guy's attention, the best thing to do is to meet other men. Just go out with them to spread your attention.
If you really want this one guy, you need to be indifferent.
The tactic is to be open. If you want to get a relationship with a guy, let him know that you're seeing other people.
The second thing is to set a challenge. Let him know that you don't want anything with him, although you like him. Say that this is just casual and you don't want any future with him.
Talk about how you loved your exes. This will set a challenge to the guy.
When you're with him, focus on being there. Show that you enjoy his company.
You can balance this by being indifferent when you're not around. This is going to make him want you when you're around.
Prepare to be indifferent. It can be difficult to do that when you like the person. Visualizing this will make it easier.
Visualize a scenario where you’re normally in and you're not indifferent. Imagine changing your attitude at that moment.
You will realize that even though you're there, it can be easy for you to let go. He's going to think about why it's easy for you to let him go but not the other guys.
If he likes you, he's going to try to fill in the gap. He's going to try to get that certainty from you that he knows you could give because you've done it with other people.
While you're away from him, you can show your indifference by taking longer to text back. Be hard to reach.
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