-No break in the pattern of texting
There's nothing wrong with showing that you like a guy when texting, the problem is when you ALWAYS show that you like him. A guy wants some variety and the way he gets it is not only through other women, but through a variety of emotions. A man wants to feel fear, happiness, sadness and a bunch of other emotions. But when you're constantly validating him through always texting him back fast, he's going to lose interest. And it's not that texting fast is a problem, the problem is ALWAYS texting fast. Take a break from time to time. One day, respond to your crush fast and the next time slow it down.
-Too direct and certain
Be a little mysterious and ambiguous. When you're always giving him certainty, his imagination won't run wild. IF you want him to think of you more, be uncertain. Say "maybe" from time to time. Learn how to say one thing and mean the other.
-Too many haha’s and lols
When texting, a lot of women make the mistake of being too emotional over text. This comes back down to being mysterious, remove all emotions from time to time. For example.
Him: Hey Whats up girl?!
Him: Hey whats up girl!
You: Hey! lol
What's the difference? One looks happier than the other. Which one will make a guy feel insecure? The top one! That's the point. Little subtle things to make a guy emotional is much better than obvious things like posting a photo of you with another dude.
-Texting too much and too fast - slow it down. I know you want to chat with him, but if you text fast and often then he's going to grow tired of you no matter how hot you are.
-Getting to know him through text…
Unless you're in a marriage or long distance relationship, texting isn't to get to know someone. Wait till the date. Only text to meet up. It makes things more interesting.
We discuss this in greater detail in my course.... click here.