1. Always say less than necessary.
Try your best to keep your text vague and non investment. If you were once happy and very wordy, stop it. If this is a new dude, then say less. IF he gets insecure, good, he’ll text you more. From time to time text a lot when he’s giving you attention, but suddenly end it and end it on your terms. And also saying less will help you say less stupid shit.
2. Use absence to make him come to you.
Too much circulation makes the price go down: the more you are seen and heard from, the more common you appear. If you are already established in a group, temporary withdrawal from it will make you more talked about, even more admired. You must learn when to leave. Create value through scarcity.
Texting all the time creates the opposite effect:
The more you are heard from, the more your value degrades.
You must learn to back off before you are unconsciously pushed away and that’s why you must starve the other person of your presence.
You must indicate that you would leave them if you feel that you’re not payed attention enough. Don’t say it directly. In the beginning of the relationship, say that you’ve done it before to someone you really loved.
-Actually have a life where you have to withdraw or give off the illusion. By completely withdrawing for a while, you create a kind of death before death.
When you come back, it will be as if you had come back from the dead. Coming back in this case is having the feeling that you didn’t like them and now you do.
3. Like him a lot in person, but be distant when away. Why? Because this gives you two different edges: in person you validate him, when you're not in person you make him feel insecure. This has even been done to me and it has worked. Whenever you are hard to reach, you'll always be more wanted and more in demand. The beauty about this is that it makes people anticipate meeting up with you. They don't know whether or not you're mad at them.
Once they see that you like them in person, it makes him like you more. Why? Because he thought he lost you at a subtle level. TRUST ME. This works.
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