This video is about what to do if he cheats. Do you break up with him or do you take him back?
I'm never one to recommend people to make decisions. It's a difficult decision to make and it depends on the circumstances.
When it comes to cheating, a lot of it has to do with a guy’s value system at that point in his life.
Some guys are in a certain state of mind where they just want to meet and have sex with a bunch of women. At other times, they just want to settle down.
The problem is when it's in the guy’s nature to cheat. They just want to keep f******. They're not really bad people. Usually they’re a victim of their dicks. They just can't help themselves.
You have guys that cheat to hurt you and you have guys who do it because they can't help themselves. Sadly, you can't really change these guys.
Only life experience can change them.
The problem with you taking a guy back after he cheats, are the doubts that you're going to start having about him. You're going to start second guessing everything he does.
The psychological damage that comes with constantly wanting to monitor who he has been in contact with is just too much.
You might feel great after taking him back but then you have to deal with monitoring his ass. You have to think about where he's been because he cheated on you.
You’ve got to monitor him so that it doesn't happen again. The whole monitoring thing takes a lot of energy. Is it worth it? It's up to you to decide.
As a guy who has instincts, I think it's best to move on. Why would you want to be with someone who cheats on you?
Sometimes you really love the guy and you have to live with him which makes it more complicated. I don't think that I'm qualified to tear your relationship apart because I think that when somebody cheats on you, you have to dump them.
It's just the way I see it. There are times when guys really are remorseful that they cheated on you.
Usually, it's not personal. It doesn't have anything to do about you as a person. It's just that the guy wants to f*** other women.
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