These are things that I wish women understood about men and their psychology. This will save them a lot of trouble and unwarranted insecurities.
1. Don’t use plastic surgery… PLEASE.
Okay, I’m not talking for most men, but most men will say they prefer a natural woman over a woman who uses plastic surgery… or at least appears to use plastic surgery. There’s something unreal about them that isn’t attractive. Maybe it works when you’re young, but the older you get, the more addictive they become because you grow to believe it beats aging. It doesn’t. It just makes things worse.
2. It’s okay if we see you without makeup. Relax.
Somehow, I find it perplexing that some women don’t like to go out without makeup. From what I know, and from what other men tell me, they really don’t care. They prefer a woman with minimal makeup than a woman with a lot. The “small” sacrifice you’re making is worth the natural look. TRUST ME. Guys may react to you by giving you more attention, but they will inevitably see how you look. It's best to keep the makeup at a minimum. Less is more.
3. Any subtle sign that you don’t like us makes us insecure.
Most of the time girls lose interest in a guy almost instantaneously, and what’s worse, it happens often. So if you show us that you’re losing interest, we’re going to panic and get needy.
4. A little bit of jealousy is hot as fuck.
Men need to stay in a sexually competitive state. So if he gets comfortable and knows that there’s no way he’s going to lose you, he’ll naturally lose interest, or at least the intensity of the relationship will diminish faster than it would if you would have added a little element of jealousy.
5. They’re more afraid than you think they are…
Most guys are insecure, they just try to act confident by showing off with things. You have to see through that veil and realize most guys have zero options and when they see a girl liking them, for the most part, it’s something that happens on rare occasions.
Don’t give them that much credit. Most guys WISH they were players. Just because they text other girls doesn’t mean they’re fucking.
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