These mistakes are not made because women don't know. They're done because of needy emotions.
Realize that humans are not rational creatures. We are irrational by nature. That's why we make dumb decisions.
1. Having unrealistic expectations
One of the biggest reasons why women struggle in relationships isn’t always because of the guys they meet, but because of the unrealistic expectation they have about relationships. They want something permanent. There's nothing wrong with that, but it’s not realistic to expect that he’ll always love you, unconditionally.
There are things that you can do that will make him stop loving you.
In addition, expecting the guy to commit fast is also another recipe for failure. Men feel your expectations. IT’s much better to project outcome independence because the opposite of it is neediness.
Drop your expectations. Stop romanticizing relationships and get realistic about men.
2. Using him as your source of self-esteem
If your reaction to unhappiness is using men to feel better, then you’re being needy and it’s affecting how men interact with you.
Stop any effort of using men as a source of happiness. IF you notice that what you’re doing is to get good emotions from it, then stop what you’re doing and do the opposite. IF you don’t then you’re going to let neediness run your life and men will naturally pull away from you because the most unattractive trait in women is neediness and insecurity.
3. Not being strategic about dating
The biggest complaint I get from people on my channel is that you don’t have to learn how to make a guy like you, you can just be yourself and make him love you. If you really believe that then why are you watching this channel?
In life, you have to be strategic especially about power dynamics. If you don’t know how to play the game the right way, then you’re always going to be a victim of circumstance.
There’s nothing wrong with knowing how to make a guy chase through the use of strategy. Only those who don’t use strategies end up losing. Either play the game or get left behind.
We discuss this in greater detail in my course.... click here.