The main strategy that guys have when it comes to getting a woman to chase is trying to get her to be needy towards him. There's no such thing as a needy woman. She is just attracted to him.
She's trying to tell you that you can get her. She’ll text you every day. She will call you and not be able to control herself. She doesn't want you to have any doubt that she likes you. She’ll act ‘needy.’
Women also try to make men, needy. They’ll make you want something from them, hoping that you'll get attached to the outcome. Then, they'll pull it away. The key to being needy is anticipating that.
The truth about my dating life is that I always have a girl who is willing to hang out. I cancel plans a lot because I think long-term. If I meet a girl today, I don't rush it. When you slow things down and make a woman wait, she feels like you have a lot of options.
To get her validation, she'll wait for you because there's a chance in her mind that you picking her means that she's higher value.
I got to that place because I changed my thinking from short-term to long-term. What used to be ‘let's hang out now’ became ‘let's hang out in a few weeks.’
The first step to not allowing a man to make you needy is to have an archetype of the kind of relationship you want to have in the next year or so. Have that vision in your mind.
Have a strategy and follow it. The strategy that I teach women is this: meet a lot of men and increase your value by being unavailable. When you become unavailable, you make them chase harder.
Men may also make themselves unavailable to you. The key to this is patience. The way for you to develop patience is to have a long-term perspective. Always look towards the outcome you have in mind for the coming year. Do not focus on instant gratification.
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