What can you say and do to test whether or not your man really is there for you and is thinking of ways to please you when you're talking?
That mentality is essential for your man to make you happy.
A client of mine wanted to know if the guy she was talking to liked her. She was amazed with how he was able to fulfill the things she talked about. Every time she talked about having an experience that she's never done before, he made it happen.
If you want to see if a guy is listening to you, tell him something you always wanted to do that's easy to do.
For example, I’ve always wanted to have a surprise birthday party. I told my friends back in college that I wanted this. Long story short, they made it happen on my 29th birthday. When I went back to my apartment, I suddenly found a whole bunch of people there.
That surprised me. It was cool because they really listened when I said that!
It wasn't that I asked them to do it. They just saw an opportunity and did it. It showed me that my friends really loved me.
He has to be there in order to be a good partner. With your guy, start putting out the things that you've always wanted to do.
There was this one girl who knew that I've always wanted to do something and, one day, she did it for me.
If your guy really listens to you, you can find out whether he is actively looking for ways to make you happy by insinuating things you've always wanted to do. Tell him about experiences you've always wanted to have but other partners didn't provide to you.
That's how you find out if he really does listen to you.
You’ll know because he’ll actually present you with what you wanted with a big smile. That happens only when guys really love you.
We discuss this in greater detail in my course.... click here.