There are some women who want to get girls. Maybe they want to get girls for a threesome with their boyfriend. Maybe they’re in some sort of a lesbian phase or just want to be able to flirt better. I understand all of that.
When you approach a girl down the street. She might give you a look that says 'What? Who are you?’ If you base your comfort level on her reaction, you’ll automatically get in your head and lose your state. You're going to get scared.
You’ll lose confidence because you were looking for a reaction from her. You need to change how you see everything. Change the frame of mind. When you see a girl, literally think of her as a child. What you need to do is to remove the pressure that your mind is putting on you.
When you look at someone as if they were a child, it causes you to act like a child and be more of yourself. Your natural skills to flirt will come from that.
Ask yourself ’How can I have fun right now?’ I talk about this in my course: The Psychological Game of Attraction. I talk about how to flirt verbally.
Put yourself in a frame of mind that is relaxed. Women react to this attitude a lot more. You can say ‘I think your dress is cute. My little niece would love that.’ You're not saying things to make her happy. You're saying things for you to have fun.
When you approach, you can say ‘Hey, I thought you were cute. I just want to say hi. What are you up to right now?’ Then, the conversation will go on. She will say she's doing this or that. If a girl is interested, she's going to react in a positive way.
The fact that you’re approaching her is a very obvious thing. It's not just because she is cute.
If she says 'Are you seeing other people?’ You can say 'Yeah, I’m seeing someone. I'm able to meet other people and he’s able to meet other people as well.’ Don't make a big deal out of this and brush it off.
To get a girl's number, ask her ’By the way, are you always busy?’ Even if someone's busy, if they're interested in you, they will say ‘I'm free sometimes’ or 'I'm not always busy.’ Those are the responses that people will give you if they want you to ask for their number. If they only say ‘I’m always busy,’ it means they don't want to see you.
If they say they're not always busy, you can say ‘Cool, we should definitely hang out. What's the best way to keep in touch?’
If they say it's through Instagram, you can say ‘Alright, text me your Instagram.’ You’re still getting that number.
You can then text her during the day or a day later and say ‘Hey, nice to meet you. By the way, I'm free during this time and this time. How does that look?’ You just set up the date.
When somebody likes you, your text game is going to be amazing. Keep it simple. Don't respond too fast. Be patient with your text messages. Keep them as short as possible. Learn how to use ‘maybe’ and be a little aloof sometimes. Act cold from time to time, but be sure to be hot as well.
Take a day or two to reply. When she texts back, text quickly for a couple of times, then go back to taking longer. Switch it up so you can throw her off.
We discuss this in greater detail in my course.... click here.