People think high self-esteem is about being good-looking, having muscles and hot but all these are just superficial. High self-esteem has more essence than the external. It's not about realizing that you are better than somebody else, it's about realizing you have a certain ability that most people don't know they have. It's about realizing the potential you have.
What I'm going to discuss today is what people with high self-esteem do. These are the things you're going to begin to notice once you develop high self-esteem.
People with high self-esteem observe the past from a critical perspective by analyzing it rather than creating an identity from it.
People with high self-esteem embrace being alone and they create their own ecosystem of positive emotions.
People with high self-esteem fix mistakes systematically and embraces challenges. Self-efficacy is not the belief that you will never fail but that you trust in your faculties. You don’t fear challenges, you adapt. It’s not based on the past glories, but on facing challenges.
People with high self-esteem have a positive effect on their environment, they're like the Febreze to the world. They expect good reactions and have a clarity of mind to plan for the future.
People with high self-esteem have clear boundaries and re-enforce it. They take responsibility for their emotions.
Why is this important? When you have high self-esteem, you're dynamic. It's all about understanding the power you have as a person.
We discuss this in greater detail in my course.... click here.