Let's talk about how to keep your man interested. When your vision becomes narrow and you feel needy, something happens to your mind. The biggest problem that women have in terms of keeping a man is neediness and desperation. You become needy and desperate whenever your vision is stuck in the moment.
Whenever you feel lonely and you want someone, you subconsciously believe you're always going to be this way. You believe you're always going to be alone.
I say subconsciously because you feel the sensation of loneliness. You think of the thoughts of being alone and you react to that emotionally. If you knew the future that one day you'll be with someone, would you still feel lonely? You wouldn't react to loneliness because you know that things are going to be okay.
You feel needy and anxious because you think that you will never find a guy that's good for you. When it comes to finding people, it's all about being patient. It's about being relaxed and understanding that people will come into your life Inevitably.
When you are desperate and you think that you're never going to have a guy, you're naturally going to feel anxiety. You're naturally going to latch on to the next guy that comes to you. If he gives you any hope of finding that perfect relationship, you're naturally going to cling on to him.
What you have to do is have a clear vision of what you want. Have a clear vision of the kind of relationship you want. If you don't have one, you're always going to be reacting to the things that are in front of you.
Let's say I'm a very skinny guy and women reject me because of that. How will I react if I knew that I'm going to be skinny for the rest of my life? I'm going to be anxious because I'm going to believe that I'm never going to get a girl.
Let’s say I'm a skinny guy, but I know that I can work out and next year I am going to be a bit bigger and girls are going to like me more. How will I react to the fact that women are rejecting me? I'll still be anxious, but I'm confident that next year is going to be different.
Have a clear vision of where you're going in your life. When things go wrong, you can go back and see that vision in your mind. You would not react with desperation. You only act desperate if you don't know what's going to happen next.
Give yourself time. Realize that we have a lot of time on this Earth.
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