Let me tell you how to impress your boyfriend's parents. I like this subject so I'm going to be giving you guys strategies on how to make it happen.
Make them react to you and not the other way around. Why? This is because when you focus on making them react to you it means that they're the ones who are trying to impress you and win your validation.
The first key is being relaxed. Relaxed is confident. When you're not confident, you're tense and you stutter.
The second key is to feel good and be self-amused. Have fun and you’ll be yourself. Focus on making yourself laugh and impress yourself. You won’t be feeding energy off of them but t you’ll be a source of positive emotions. This is done through meditation or visualization.
The third key is to have inner value. Use the suppression of emotion technique to sub-communicate goodness. Rather than expressing your happiness, you feel it and you hold it in. It's like trying to contain your smile or a surprise. This way, people will feel your emotions and sense it.
Remember, don’t try to impress them because the first key to impressing someone is not trying to impress them. Let go of that mentality.
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