The reason why you must have different options is not because you want to do them all. You want different options in order to get to know them. If you limit your options to one guy, you develop blind spots because you give him the benefit of the doubt.
If you really want to find someone good, you have to take your time. It's hard to find a good person. You’ve got to have different options because it allows you to think. You are not as emotionally attached. You have more perspective. You are able to detach yourself and get to know him for him. You won't enhance qualities that aren't really there.
You're able to compare him to other guys and your perspective of him widens. The scope of your vision is broader. You have to have different options.
See other men. Start swiping right. Start saying yes to those guys. When you do that, you’re learning to have more fun. You actually get hurt a lot less.
If you meet one guy and you like him even if you have a lot of options, that liking is a little bit more accurate. Something in him causes you to forget the other guys. You said no to other guys and you said yes to him.
It's like a roll of the dice. You have to find that one right guy who handles all your bullshit. Sometimes, women don't find other guys because they only date one guy.
A lot of humans are shitty. It's like trying to buy an avocado. Are you going to pick the first avocado or are you going to check out the others?
You have to keep looking and feeling around. You have to get to know them, test them and all that stuff.
I'm a happy person because I have different options. I try to get to know who the girls are as individuals. My perspective only gets narrowed when I’m needy.
If you are needy and you don't have a lot of options, you would pick the first person who comes along. You think you picked him, but you only did because of a lack of options.
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