I'm featuring a video where I approached a girl.
Notice the part where I used silence in order to trigger discomfort.
A simple way to f*** with a guy when he asks for your number is to say ‘By the way what's my name?’ and just pause. For the most part, people will forget your name.
When you ask them for your name, they’ll say ‘uhm’ or ‘ah’ and then you’ll act disappointed. They will feel like they lost something from you.
I looked away when she couldn't say my name. I used body language to look disappointed.
When she made me laugh, I got closer to her as a way of rewarding her. This is how I'm able to physically escalate. Now, being nice to her will be received as a cool thing rather than me doing it just to get her to like me.
Another thing you can do is accusing the guy of insulting you. If he says ‘What do you do?’ Be like ‘whatever’ and then act offended. If, for example, he says ‘Are you studying nursing?’ Say ‘How dare you think that I study nursing. Is it because I'm a girl?’
It will get the guy to say ‘I'm just kidding with you.’ Then you can say ‘Yeah, I am studying nursing.’
There was a point where she asked a question, but I moved on to another topic. Not answering all questions enables her to ask it later on. It creates a mystery and makes her more curious.
I deflected the question of how old I am so that she could ask it again and feel as though she has to work to get to know me. If she's really curious, she's going to be talking to me with that question in mind.
It creates an inner dialogue where she's thinking about what to ask. It's a very subtle way to get her to invest.
This interaction wasn't as good because I asked a lot of direct questions. I need more practice.
Practice being able to talk without thinking. That way you’ll have a nice flow to the interaction.
We discuss this in greater detail in my course.... click here.