The one thing that makes a woman stand out in my head is having a hint of coldness to her personality. It doesn't mean that you're cold and you're wearing a sweater, what I mean is that there's a sense that you could easily walk away. It's like a watching a little baby go up the stairs for the first time--you fee like he's gonna fall back.
A hint of coldness is giving guys the fear that you're gonna leave him potentially if he fucks up. The problem is this--when you love a guy, you try to convince him that you're his, you try to let him know that you will never leave him, you try to let him know that what you have is forever. If you actually just tell him that you'll see what the relationship will turn out, it's like you're acting that you could take it or leave it.
If you love him and you guys are in sync, he's gonna love you the same way that you love him and if he hears that, it's not gonna turn him off--it's going to even make him appreciate you more.
Create your value to make people value you. Don't give away your love and respect to somebody who hasn't earned it so in the beginning, be cold and be a little difficult.
The problem is this tactic turns women too masculine and I 100% agree. My responsibility is to find that balance where you're cold but feminine. Do it like this over text, be a little bit cold but when you're in person with him, just be who you are, don't over compliment him and smile 10% less.
Just do not over pursue, don't double text but you got to still be feminine. If you don't act feminine, the guy that likes you will be feminine and you'll lose respect for him and that's not what we want. Just don't validate him too much. If you did validate him, just pull away a little bit. Don't go too far and don't have too much control.
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