Let's talk about pursuing pleasure over pursuing discipline and mastery. What constitutes a stupid man is a man who puts short-term pleasure over their long-term goals-- their mastery and their purpose.
When you do this, by the end of the road, you end up with nothing, you end up feeling frustrated and feeling almost resentment towards women. Women are unpredictable, you can't predict whether or not the same woman will be with you tomorrow as she is with you today.
So pursuing pleasure is something that will lead to you not being able to control your emotions. Whenever you're dependent on something that's outside your control, it puts you in a state when you're constantly thinking what's gonna happen. This is how women control and manipulate you because you're pursuing pleasure.
No women will be able to control your thoughts, thinking and emotions if your focus in life is discipline and mastery. Women are backwards. If she senses that you value your work or career over her, she's going to work to put herself in a higher ladder value to you but when she senses that you're her all, she won't feel the need to climb up the ladder scale of your value.
For a woman to believe that you're hard to get, she has to struggle. She can't make one move and have you already. and the only way to really get to that point is to believe that your purpose in life transcends women.