Let me tell you something very important to talk about: It's females' main strategies to manipulate you. You have to understand that there are different forms of manipulations but it all comes under one umbrella, it's controlling your vision and narrowing what you see into one scope.
The reason why you guys lose control when a woman likes you is that you can't think straight. A woman is only trying to let you do one thing, it's to be in the moment. She doesn't want you to think of any moment but now. Why? It's because she doesn't want you to see how much value she really has.
A woman will raise her value by making you think she's special or by making you think she's irreplaceable. She does it by being unavailable and hot and cold. It plays upon human's main weakness which is their impatience.
Your impatience is based on your libido so a woman will drive that up by teasing you and making you think that you lost her. What you got to do for yourself is to stop thinking for trying to get laid tomorrow. Think long term and create a 5-year strategy that'll put you in a position of power.
It's a lot easier to control what's gonna happen five years from now than what's gonna happen tomorrow because there's more space for error. If you cast your net more widely and give yourself more room to make mistakes, it automatically gives you patience. This is important because you're not focused on the now but on the long-term goal that you can control.
Women hate when a guy is focused on his career because she can't control him. A woman's manipulation strategy against you is to change what you want and your focus.
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