Today, we're going to be talking about how to avoid and not fall for guys that don't like you back.
The first thing is finding your purpose. Having a goal that you're working towards is the first thing that'll help you not fall in love with someone. Have a goal in your life that wakes you up, makes you feel excited and infiltrates you from the distraction of falling in love with somebody. Make that goal almost as a force that the guy has to fight against. Give your goals the time to give the guy something to fight against. When he knows you're busy, it makes you more valuable.
The problem is though, is that it tends to only keep the guys with the fewer options. The guys you're going to get are the good, decent guys.
So that's the first thing, having goals zero in and focuses your mind so you're not distracted when things go wrong.
Usually, when you fall for a guy who doesn't like you back, you're not falling for him because of his personality. You're only falling for him because he's hurting your ego. The reason why your ego is being hurt is that you just have a lack of perspective.
The most important thing is, from the start, you got to have a very strict standard of people you will or will not accept. You got to start strong.
Also, don't react emotionally, commit to having a lifestyle and commit to never chase the types of guys that hurt your ego. Make it a policy to never double text.
Now, if a guy that you like comes back to you, never completely take them back because when somebody ghosts you and comes back to you, if you don't make them pay the price, they're not going to respect you. Have him make it up to you and pay the price so the next time he breaks up or ghosts you, he's going to remember that there's a price to pay.
So again, have a set of standards and write it down. Write down the things that guys have done to you in your life that led to disrespect.
We discuss this in greater detail in my course.... click here.