So how do you start a relationship the right way? A lot of the times, women begin relationships off in the wrong foot and a lot of it is not about what they do but about how they handle the first couple of dates, meetings and text messages.
I'm going to show you the mentality to handle it the right way and increase the chances that the relationship's gonna last.
First things first, don't avoid arguments. You got to find them to see how they react. To see how somebody is, you have to provoke them and see how they are when they're angry. A person's true character comes out when they're arguing with you so it's good to pick up little tiny fights to see how he reacts when there's an argument.
Also, maintain mobility by being exploring and keeping your options open. Allow yourself to keep a foot in the doot and out the door.
Another thing to keep in mind is to not label the relationship. Don't be the one that comes with the conversation of "what are we", even though you want to say it badly, you got to let him do it. By simply opening up, it'll give him more power. Let him interpret your desires, be mysterious.
Become aware of defensiveness, notice yourself getting defensive anytime you argue. When you go to a relationship with a non-defensive mentality, it enables you to explore different points of view without having a bias. It also opens up the person's mind and also lets down their guard.
Also, notice if there's a lack of self-awareness because if he lacks this, there's toxicity behind it. If you have a guy who isn't self-aware, he'll be the guy who embarrasses you in front of other people.
The last one, watch out for over-politeness and being too perfect because it's a huge sign. At the beginning of a relationship, people try to show their best face but the issue is that evil hides in the face of politeness. The most maniacal people have the nicest smile so don't let it consume your attention, flatter you and blind you.
I'm not telling you to be paranoid but just be aware of it.
We discuss this in greater detail in my course.... click here.