I've been getting lots of requests to make this video so let's expose Elliot Scott and see what he has to say.
If a man says to a woman to take things slow etc, what I will go with that is to never accept uncertainty or maybe's from people. Say "let me know when things clear up and then we could try again", you're not gonna be dating that guy who says he's not ready. Tell him to let you know when he's ready and then just pull away. When a woman says she's slowly looking for the right guy, they're being honest.
Being the right girl isn't about being perfect. What you need to understand is some people just won't like you and the people who like you will like you despite your flaws.
Also, we have to realize that there will be people who will take our place and there are people who'll look at us and see us as relics.
Another thing is, I would go and play hard to get because when you're in love, you lose a certain level of self-awareness of how you're coming across and the things that you're saying. You got to play the game and have structures so you could rein in your emotions.
You think you're doing the right thing when you love the person but from the other person's perspective, you're looking a little crazy. That's why it's important to implement games, not to be the foundation of your relationship but initially, in the dating phase, you got to play a little bit of the games.
When they say "Why can't I just be me?" in reality what they're saying is "Why can't I just be selfish and express how I feel" If you think of the other person, you realize that that turns him off. It's not even about changing yourself, it's just changing the intensity. Cold at first and then warm after. You have to control your emotions.
Sometimes you're not really needy but because you love the person and they don't love you back or they're not on the same wavelength, they'll perceive it as needy. If you tell him you love him, you got to pull away after.
I agree with Elliot Scott. Go check him out.