The reason why I wanted to make this video because this is very paradoxical--it sort of doesn't make any sense but it will make sense--a lot of our relationship with women has a lot to do with our parents.
Human beings naturally predictably react to certain things. A child has a natural reaction to a father that's not there. A child has a natural reaction to a selfish parent. This is why narcissists and people, in general, get us attracted to them because they sort of remind us that we have family members in the past that have been rejected and denies and that pain and the anticipation of that pain is in every one of our genetic code,
Certain behaviors remind us at a primal level of certain people in our past. What you wanna do then is remind them of that. This only works when a woman is attached to you. Every one of us at least has one girl who was obsessed with us and those are the ones that this will work on.
You got to become sort of the bad father or bad husband. Remember, the bad father or the bad husband put his own happiness above his families. What you want to create in her life is the undependable father, the father that sometimes take you out on a random Sunday afternoon but gets drunk and forgets to pick you up in a baseball game so your mom has to do it.
What I'm saying is you got to learn how to treat women a little bit more mean.
We discuss this in greater detail in my course... click here.