So, how do you keep her obsessed with you while in a long-distance relationship? How do you do that? I get asked this question very often so let's talk about this today and address it.
Essentially, you already have the distance with long-distance relationships so that space already makes her feel insecure. The problem is this: it shouldn't make you feel insecure. If you're in a long-distance relationship, I'm not being negative and I'm not trying to scare you but just assume that she's cheating.
I'm sorry. You don't know that she's cheating so just assume that she is. In other words, don't put all your eggs in that basket because if you're not around her, you won't know what she's doing. All you're doing is just thinking that she's not cheating on you.
Not that you trust her but just always assume she's cheating after that don't make the mistakes I made. One mistake I did is I didn't give her space, I wasn't giving her the space to chase me and I was pretty much always available to talk on the phone so I wasn't making her chase me.
I was always available and I didn't make the effort to back off because I wasn't emotionally mature enough to deal with not talking to her for at least a day.
You know those relationships that work and so because it's working you feel like you shouldn't apply the tactics because it's working? That's how it felt. Don't buy into that. Don't buy into that feeling of complacency.
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