The reason why you get confused when you see an ugly dude with a beautiful girl is that you don't understand how women get attracted and that's why you're mad. Sometimes, that ugly dude could be something like a director of her theatre school and that's how he got her. As simple as that. A woman will want to sleep with you if you're a director of anything.
The reason why women don't sleep with you is that you don't understand how women see you. You don't have that self-knowledge and you don't know how people see you and that's how you're having problems. In order to change people's perception of us, we have to first understand how they see us and nothing changes the way people see you other than one thing: Being in a position of leadership.
We discuss this in greater detail in my course... click here.