I came up with this topic because a lot of women love projects. I coach a lot of women who chase guys that disrespect them and it's fascinating why they do it: they think guys are vulnerable.
Some guys tell women they're depressed, they were cheated on, they don't trust women etc. When you guys say that and then you guys go cold, what happens is the women doesn't get defensive--she actually tries to help you. In her mind, she'll try to use the moment to get closer to you.
So how do I recommend you guys do this? It's simple. When you talk to them, just tell her that you sometimes get depressed, you struggle opening up and you sometimes isolate yourself. See, when you isolate yourself, they begin to chase you. They think that it's not because you're losing interest but just isolating yourself and you're going through your problems.
It's a perfect excuse to make them chase.
We discuss this in greater detail in my course... click here.