Let's talk about being difficult with women. I've been getting a lot of requests to make a video about this and it relates to female nature.
When you're in a relationship with a woman that you love, you naturally want to make things easier for her because you don't want to see her feel bad. The problem when you're not difficult to a woman is she's not going to think of you as much. Her energy and her energy is going to be wasted on you but other things because you're so stable.
Even in the beginning, you want to be difficult because it sets the pace of the relationship. By you not making it easier for her, you set a challenge for her because she can't act out how she normally acts out with other guys.
A lot of guys out there have let women act out because they're afraid to lose them. What you'll notice is that, initially, a woman will try to test you and when they do notice that you can't be played, there are two things she's gonna do.
Leave you and find another guy
Or she's gonna submit and act more feminine
Every time she's willing to walk away, you should be willing to walk away too. Do not set up a date with a woman and have an emotional connection to that date. Always remind yourself that you have to show strength and show her she can't affect you.
Another way to be difficult is not being easy to open up or being warm in person and hard to reach. Like what we always talk about: when a woman cancels on a date, see her two weeks from now.
You don't need to be difficult all the time but in the beginning, you want to be difficult and then ease up on her. You got to be difficult with women, they will react positively but if you ease up on them, they can't respect you even if they want to.
Remember, when she leaves, don't go after her. Be unreactive to her and be difficult from the start.
We discuss this in greater detail in my course.... click here.