Today, we're gonna be reviewing Amy North so I'm gonna see the advice that she gives about the 5 Texts To Make Any Man Obsess Over You and I's gonna give you guys my take on her advice.
I would say making a guy lose interest could be as easy as sending the wrong text messages. It's a lot easier to turn them off than to turn them on in a way that makes them love you through text. Naturally, the love that you feel is just based on the chemistry you guys feel and there's nothing you can do about chemistry. You can do all the things she's gonna talk about but if you guys don't have that natural chemistry, anything that you do will be temporary.
When you send a boring text to a guy from time to time, it's good because it could potentially make him feel like "Am I losing her?" because you sound like you're disinterested. There's nothing wrong with sounding boring from time to time, it's not gonna kill you. In fact, if you text this way and you're amazing in person, that would be much preferred because then the only way to have fun with you is in person.
I want you guys to be so busy that when you send a guy "Hey, what are you up to", it's a surprise for him. You got to initiate a contact from time to time do you won't turn your man into a bitch 'cause then you'll lose interest. Also, don't sound all goddamn interesting all the time.
Another thing, we don't give a fuck about grammar. Spelling mistakes for us guys are no problem. Dicks are not that self-righteous, it doesn't work that way. Don't worry about misspelling words.
Happiness doesn't get a guy to love you. It's not happiness but a little anxiety. It's better off to get in the habit of being a little cold over text and from time to time you warm up. Also, don't joke around over text. I prefer to not joke around over text, be formal--it creates more uncertainty. Another thing, stop trying to be funny especially if you're not funny because it comes across as though you're trying to get the guy to like you but when you're not funny or making jokes, it makes a guy feel and think why you're not making jokes. See what I'm saying?
Her advice works if a guy likes you but I could promise you, being cold works, even more, when a guy likes you. You know what happens when somebody you like treats you cold, right? You get insecure and you begin chasing.
Her advice does work but it takes away from the real focus on what's really important which is letting your unavailability do your dirty work. Your unavailability is what's gonna create all of these fantasies in his head. It's easier to be a little more distant from time to time and then be cold in text and warm in person. That's much better because women who did that to me every single time, I was always afraid whether or not they were actually gonna meet me because of how cold they are in text but then I realize it's just my insecurity.
We discuss this in greater detail in my course.... click here.