Let's talk about something that a lot of guys think doesn't matter. The reason why they don't think it matters is that they have this perception of women and people in general, that how you act and your personality is likeable. People think that they're personality--in its bare form--is likeable.
We have a skewed perception, we have this perception of us guys and we cannot see how women see us. You think that a woman would like you for who you are--for your goofy ass self--you think a woman wants a funny dude, a dude who has high energy, a dude who's cool and a dude who makes people laugh. That's what we think and I know that.
Women have a fantasy in their heads, they have a certain template of how a guy should act. You want to fit that template until she falls in love with you and then you can act yourself. The point is, in the beginning, you got to act masculine. Don't goof around and break your frame. Be fucking serious.
We got to understand, women want a dude who she values.
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