These turnoffs are not things that a lot of guys realize that are a turnoff for women for the simple fact that they don't see it from their perspective. The turnoff for men is different than what they are for women so what you think might turn them off, in reality, turns them on. It's funny how that works because the ones that we think are turn-ons really are turnoffs.
The first turnoff is talking a lot. Talking a lot turns women off, I am telling you, people, I made that mistake too. This is the most common one, talking your way out the pussy. It could be because you said something that offended her, it could be because you said something that made you look like a pussy or It could just mean that you're talking too much. The point is that talking a lot is the biggest mistake that everybody makes, not just in relationships but in general.
To fix these, literally, go 50% or speak a little bit less, like 25%. Experiment to see what's the level of talking that's not too much and not too little.
The second turnoff is goofiness--which goes along with talking a lot. Get this out of your head, that the guy women like is a funny dude. Women like the guys who are serious and focused and relaxed. Being the serious guy makes women react and it makes them the goofy one and not you so stop trying to be funny. If you're funny, you're funny but if you're not funny, stop trying because when you try, you'll look goofy. When you're just funny by mistake, then that's what you want. The gains of being funny when you're not funny are not worth the potential loss when it doesn't get her to laugh--'cause then you'll look like an idiot.
The third turnoff is giving up your time fast. When you give up your time too soon and you're too available for her, it turns her off. You can't always be available. If you want to fix this, in the first 2 or 3 months just see them once a week, don't see her twice a week in the first 2-3 months. Also, never make plans for the next time while you're on a date with her.
The fourth turnoff is never temporarily pulling away. Guys, at least once a month, pull away and disappear on her. At least once a month, disappear on her over text and at least one of every five dates cancel it. Pull back from time to time so she'll realize how much a high-value guy you are. Pulling back reminds her of who you are. If you never pull back because you don't want to hurt her feelings, then that's a problem.
The last turn off--and the big one--is you're broke. When you're broke and have no purpose then you're not looking good at all. Not just because you don't have money but because you're not working for your money. You don't save money and your habit is to spend. Also, having no purpose or direction, you're just working but you don't have the passion or something that you're improving on.
It's not that I want you guys to be bothered but I just want you guys to have a future, or at least look like you have a future. Look the part and be working towards the part. Meaning, dress nice and work on your purpose. You got to have a path in life that you follow because when you don't have that, women get turned off.
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